You’re also a guy, which puts things into a VERY different perspective. it’s not as bad if you’re a guy who doesn’t care if he looks ‘perfect’ or slim and attractive, but it’s almost everything to younger girls. Especially in Asia where many are taught that they need a man to survive. It’s not as if they really want to be liked because they are ‘beautiful’ from things that make them look good, but it’s been drilled into them.